Imagine what it would be like for you to be able to walk into any room and command attention.
How would you feel if you were the president of your local coffee shop or of your local Whole Foods?
Imagine being able to walk into any bar or being able to go into any party, and you are the person that everybody wants to get to know . . . all before you even utter a word.
If all of this sounds good to you, then today’s podcast is all about you.
You need to listen to me and my coach Adam from London as we walk you through a very emotional journey.
We will show you how to command attention wherever you go.
You’ll know exactly how to turn on that charm and charisma in every situation, and before you even speak to anybody.
That’s all I’m going to say about it. See you guys on the podcast!
Sex & The City a marqué la sexualité des années 90. Ok, ok. Le fameux épisode avec le rabbit est devenu instantanément culte, faisant passer la masturbation féminine de la honte au glamour.
Il ne se passe pas une semaine ou une idée de projet sans qu’un producteur/éditeur/vieux me dise : ha mais il faudrait faire un truc un peu comme dans Sex & The City, tu vois poulette ? Un truc sexy mais pas vulgaire, ha ha, le rabbit, quel incroyable coup médiatique, le symbole d’une génération, le pognon, la hype, le respect !
Je rappelle du coup qu’en 2010, une fille n’a toujours pas le droit d’être vulgaire. Les hommes ont peuuuur, donc le suicide social n’est plus loin, donc autant se pendre direct. Coquine oui, vulgaire non. D’ailleurs même sur Sexactu, j’ose pas (bon et puis honnêtement après, c’est une question de personnalité, moi je préfère être habillée vulgaire que parler vulgaire, la pétasse en moi grandit de jour en jour).
C’est pareil, le sexe, il ne faut pas en parler au premier degré parce que ça tache.
Sex & The City me gonfle parce que cette série a défini comment une femme peut parler de sexe : 1) en restant drôle, 2) en se prenant la tête, 3) en étant incompétente, 4) en étant dans la lose totale, 5) en restant célibataire et malheureuse. Même le premier point, que j’aime bien fréquenter, ne me semble pas obligatoire.
Sex & The City a donc popularisé le rabbit, qui est un bon sextoy, mais qui n’est pas glamour. Pas une seule seconde. Le rabbit est un touilleur de vagin.
Mais il y a pire.
Le rabbit a connu son heure de gloire en 1995. Nous sommes en 2010. Les sextoys modernes sont vachement plus inventifs, drôles et/ou flippants qu’à l’époque. Et pourtant il faut toujours qu’on me ressorte ce bon vieux rabbit, parce qu’il est rassurant.
J’en ai assez qu’on nous rassure contre notre volonté.
Je propose donc de tuer le lapin. Qu’on décide ici et maintenant de bâtir une jolie tombe, avec une jolie inscription “1995-2010″ et peut-être une jolie épitaphe genre “au grand rabbit la passion reconnaissante”. Après avoir tué le père, vraiment, il faut tuer le lapin.
So I have my team with me, and we’re doing some work in a burger joint. As we were talking, one of the waitresses came over to drop off my “to go” order for Sonja. As she did, she gave me the “clit eye.”
A lot of guys don’t know what the clit eye is, because they don’t understand how women are wired. When a woman likes a guy and finds him attractive, what she’ll do is give him the clit eye.
Let’s take this waitress in the burger joint for example. She dropped off the burger, smiled at me and said “Enjoy!” as she set it down. Then as she walked away, she turned back, looked at me and she gave me the clit eye.
Clit eye is that momentary glance that a woman gives you as she walks away. She will glance back at you, maybe she does a double smile . . . and there is the clit eye.
Women are really sexually wired. If a woman finds a guy appealing and sexy, she will communicate with her clit.
Now a woman does not communicate with her clit like a guy communicates with his dick. Her clit isn’t telling her, “Hey, I really want to f*^k him.” A woman’s sexuality, however, will always be aroused by a guy she finds very appealing.
Men are more direct about it. When a man sees a woman to whom he is attracted, his penis immediately starts saying to him “Yo bud, you better start talking to her because the balls and I want to go hang out with her tonight…” Women have that very subliminal, sexy clit eye.
So the next time a woman glances back at you, you want to give her your best smile. As she’s glancing back and smiling at you, you will now know that her clit is talking to you.
While you will want to look at her and say, “Baby I know what you’re thinking. You’ve got clit eye right now,” just look at her with a smile that is going to attract her even more. If you smile at her that way, you’re going to attract her even more because at that moment she’s going to know that you’re confident.
She will know that you are a secure guy who understands the power of her sexuality, and can handle her sexuality. It’s a really powerful thing to understand the dynamics of the way a woman thinks, because women are looking to find that guy who is her equal (or, even better, someone who can actually teach her something).
So when she gives you that momentary glance back and you understand that she is giving you the clit eye, you know something very powerful. When you give her that smile acknowledging that she’s a sexy, beautiful, sexual woman, she is going to stop in her tracks and wonder who the hell you are.
It doesn’t matter what comes out of your mouth next, as long as it’s spoken with power and authority. You have already communicated volumes to her.
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Je participais récemment à un documentaire sur la sexualité (vous verrez ça dans longtemps à la télé) et pendant mon interview, voilà qu’on aborde les orientations sexuelles. J’explique que la catégorisation homo/hétéro ne règle pas la question. Loin de là. Même en plantant les bi au milieu. Et comme exemple, je donne la zoophilie (rien dont on n’ait jamais discuté sur Sexactu – au sujet de la pédophilie, si j’ai bonne mémoire).
Panique de la preneuse de son : mais que quoi voyons enfin tu ne peux pas parler de la zoophilie comme si de rien n’était, comme si la zoophilie était normale.
Je n’en sais rien, moi, de ce qui est normal. Il y a des tabous qui vont et viennent, des tendances, et plus je bouquine moins je me verrais vous raconter ce qui est normal, moral, ou pire encore, naturel. Mais voici un témoignage, puisque généralement on en manque :
Je m’aperçus à l’adolescence que mon orientation sexuelle était différente de ce qu’elle était censée être. Je regardais les chevaux de la même manière que les autres garçons regardaient les filles. Je matais les films de cowboys pour entrapercevoir les chevaux. Je regardais en douce les images de chevaux à la bibilothèque. C’était avant Internet et je me sentais profondément isolé. J’étais un garçon de la ville. Je n’avais jamais vu un cheval de près, je n’en avais jamais touché ou senti. Personne de ma famille n’avait de contacts avec des chevaux mais pour moi, ils dégageaient une puissante, incroyable et primaire attractivité sexuelle.
Ceci venant d’un mec de 47 ans titulaire d’un doctorat. La discussion continue sur le consentement des animaux : certes, partir du principe que l’animal est consentant est absurde, mais partir du principe qu’il n’est pas consentant ne vaut pas mieux. Dans tous les cas on humanise. Que penser du chien qui vient se frotter contre votre mollet ?
Et pourquoi est-ce si tabou là maintenant tout de suite, d’être zoophile ? Sachant que notre société maltraite l’extrême majorité des animaux sans l’ombre d’un remord ?
Et bien mes petits lapins, je n’en sais rien du tout, mais j’en profite pour vous frotter langoureusement la fourrure.
Voici le premier d’une série de 3 articles sur l’importance de vos loisirs dans la séduction, comment les choisir et surtout les valoriser. Parce que les techniques de séduction forcenées, sans la vie qui va derrière, c’est comme le sel sans les frites : ça pique, ça sèche, et c’est vite lassant. Comment séduire : [...]
I recently posted a blog about how to really feel good about yourself by working out and the importance of keeping yourself in good shape. I received an email from a guy who read that blog that said, “David I get it. I get feeling good about myself. But what if I’m injured, and I used to be able to bench 200 lbs and now I can’t?”
The first thing I would tell this guy is to re-read that blog. I herniated a disc in my back about a year ago. I can’t run anymore, and can only do fast cardio or spin classes. I can’t do yoga like I used to, but yet I still go to the gym. I just do less.
I work out with lighter weights and more repetitions. I do less aggressive cardio.
The point is that I’m still going.
In order to feel great about yourself, you have to continue to do things that make you feel great. I know that if I don’t work out for a week, I really don’t feel good.
I don’t feel great about myself. I don’t feel my most attractive.
So it doesn’t matter what my partner says. It doesn’t matter if she thinks I look hot. I still need to feel great.
It is really about practicing self love every single day. Make a list of things that make you feel really good.
If you can’t do your regular workout regimen, then you need to think about what you can do. You need to think about what’s possible for you.
There is nothing I would love more than to be able to sprint down the beach. It would feel so great to feel the wind in my face as I run from my house down to the water and back, but I can’t do it.
I do what my body allows me to do and I make the best of it. I do that so I can still feel really good.
So to the guy who sent me this question, I hope I answered it! As you guys know, I write a new blog every single day and a lot of my ideas for the blogs come from things around me and from your questions. I am always interested in your questions, so keep posting them in the blog!
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J’aime bien le concept d’Iloveyouraccent, un site de rencontres qui permet de trouver son âme-soeur dans le monde entier. Sauf que dans mon cas personnel (je cherchais un Australien à cause de l’accent du Dr. Chase dans House qui me… me… oops), il n’y avait qu’un seul mâle disponible, âgé de 69 ans et l’air surtout intéressé par les tracteurs.
J’ai donc décidé de me consoler en regardant des aisselles noires sous une perruque blonde :
Here is something really interesting that I want to share with all of you today. Do you feel that you battle more with certain people? Do you feel like you battle more with those people because it’s a life lesson you really need to learn?
The people I’ve battled with the most in life are the ones who seem to also frustrate me the most. I can love someone who also frustrates the hell out of me.
The fact is, though, that nothing is perfect all the time. It seems like there are certain people out there in this world that I have battled with over and over again on the same issues.
Do you know why we battle over and over again with certain people on the same issues? It’s because the universe is really trying to teach us a lesson. It’s to help us learn a hard lesson.
It might be something that stems from incorrect programming from childhood. it might stem from the unhealthy way we’ve handled things our whole life. Regardless of its source, certain people will come into your life who are meant to guide you, to love you or to show these lessons.
Sometimes these lessons are very difficult to learn. Sometimes it takes six, eight or even ten times to learn it.
Look back at your past relationships — whether it’s your romantic relationships, friendships or work relationships — and look at some of the fights that you had over and over again. Then drop the ego and look at how you can take responsibility for those fights.
There are two people involved in every relationship. If somebody says the same things to you over and over again about something that bothers them, then you need to look deep inside and see how that behavior is affecting other people. It might be a behavior that is really not healthy for you to have as you move on in your life.
If you love or respect someone and you brought them into your life, then you brought them into your life for a reason. This is especially true in love relationships.
Some romantic partners we bring into our life to be ultimately end up being our friends. Some romantic partners we bring into our life just to teach us something so we can move forward to our next great relationship.
Do you ever sit down and write all the things you have learned? Do you ever write down all the things about you that have driven people crazy over and over again?
It is when you stop blaming and stop defending that the real life lessons are learned. It is pretty powerful to really let that totally come out and allow yourself to be open to these biggest of life’s lessons.
JUST 2 DAYS LEFT! I am offering something AWESOME just for my readers. On March 31st, I’ll be re-launching my “Become A Master Communicator” program on my site at its regular price. For the next 2 days, though, you can grab this product at the special introductory price (Come March 31st, you’ll NEVER see this price on this product again!). Also, anyone who grabs this product in the next 2 days, gets a slot on my upcoming “How To Succeed As A Master Communicator” Teleconference where I’ll be answering YOUR questions live on the call! CLICK HERE to grab your copy now!
Still off on my vacation, and I wanted to give all of you a little motivation to get out there this weekend and start talking!
Do you ever see a hot woman working in a store, and wonder how to make yourself stand out from the pack of guys she sees all day long?
Attracting hot women in a store is simple, if you know this one trick to how to talk to them.
Watch this live in-field video to see how this store clerk ended up asking these guys out.
JUST 3 DAYS LEFT! I am offering something AWESOME just for my readers. On March 31st, I’ll be re-launching my “Become A Master Communicator” program on my site at its regular price. For the next 3 days, though, you can grab this product at the special introductory price (Come March 31st, you’ll NEVER see this price on this product again!). Also, anyone who grabs this product in the next 3 days, gets a slot on my upcoming “How To Succeed As A Master Communicator” Teleconference where I’ll be answering YOUR questions live on the call! CLICK HERE to grab your copy now!
Aujourd’hui ce sera donc les geeks à barbe de trois jours (enfin, pour 40% des femmes, ce qui en laisse la majorité qui n’aiment pas, les titres des articles sur la séduction sont toujours bizarrement orientés).
A part ça, 91% des femmes ont tellement confiance en elles qu’elles préfèrent un mec avec des défauts qu’un mec parfait (le genre de choix utopique que tu regrettes la douzième fois qu’il oublie son passeport au moment de partir en Martinique-sur-Bambou). Mais le mec parfait, il nous aimerait avec nos défauts tout en passant l’aspirateur de la main gauche et de l’huile de massage sur nos fesses de la main droite, non ?
Plus de la moitié aimeraient les hommes doux et câlins plutôt que musclés.
1 Has facial stubble
2 Is a bit geeky
3 Has a hairy chest
4 Avid book reader
5 Cries at soppy film
6 Sings along to a song while dancing to it
7 Grey hair
8 Sweaty after workout
9 Wears glasses
10 Has a passion for sports
Et je n’ai pas le temps de traduire parce que je file au Salon du Livre. Je dédicace à partir de midi chez Mnémos avec une crise d’allergie qui tabasse : si vous venez, sincèrement, embarquez votre masque antibactérien, l’Armée de Terre hésite à me parachuter dans les montagnes afghanes pour pacifier la région par mort totale.
Imagine being able to walk into any bar or being able to go into any party, and you are the person that everybody wants to get to know . . . all before you even utter a word. 
